What a difference a year makes.

September 26, 2006 in Uncategorized

That’s right, I waited until Chip’s birthday to write my birthday recap. Go wish him a happy birthday, then come back here.

It was my best birthday ever. And a very purse-ly birthday- I got a FANTASTIC purse from Kathy T, and then Jim gave me an awesome purse as well, see? Kathy had the monogrammed purse made for me, and Jim got the the Dooney & Bourke purse because, as he said, “Now all you need is an SUV to complete the rich bitch look.” Hahahahahaha.

I got e-cards from many of my buddies, lots of great birthday wishes, and actual *card* cards from Malia (Malia’s came in the MAIL! Actually ON my birthday!!!) and John H (met up with him and his lovely wife at the Mothership, Kathy took me and Beth came with us) I also got a spiffy new Mothership BBQ t-shirt from Knuck!

Then later, Jim took me out to Cool Springs, we went to Macy’s, hit the BeneFit counter, it was a very lovely day.

Oh, but what a difference a year makes. My birthday last year went by with hardly a mention. We couldn’t afford to get me a birthday gift, my parents were too busy to celebrate much so we went to Cracker Barrel, hurriedly. No cake. (Not that I like cake.)

And it’s not just the difference in the celebrating of my birthday, either, but the entire difference in our *lives*. Jim is working a far more reasonable schedule. I’m working, and we finally! For the first time in our entire marriage! Have enough money! To pay the bills!!!! And even have some left over for fun! And savings!!!!!!

This time last year I was reeling over Nate’s diagnosis. This year, he has progressed to the point that he tests normal and doesn’t need therapy anymore. This time last year, I was worried about how I was going topay for Meghan’s school. This year she’s in free public school.

All in all, I’m a happier, more relaxed person. Everyone told me that my 30s would be a good time in my life. My late twenties completely blew chunks, but I am loving being over 30. I’m young enough to still be cute, and old enough to have some credibility.

I am finally living the happiest time of my life, and recognizing this.

PS: A few new blog posts over at the other place, check them out.